If men could stop making pathetic fantasy movies where old geezers run their dirty hands all over “consenting” girls and women young enough to be their daughter or granddaughter, that would be great. All of French cinema would probably collapse but that’s fine.
dating is supposed to be empowering. it’s supposed to make you feel good. it should be about two people, enthusiastically wanting to get to know each other and spend time together. it’s supposed to make you feel good and add joy and fun to your life
if talking to/dealing with/dating/getting to know a person isn’t like that, it’s probably a waste of time